Spanking for Play AND Punishment

Mistress Lilly

Bend over, sweetie….

How do you like your ass warmed up?

Over easy? Over the knee? Paddling that bottom until you scream? Ms. Delia has an excellent blog exploring the unique qualities and characteristics of different types of spankings, and there’s a really cool conversation going in the comment section. If you haven’t read it yet–do it now ;) As for me, I love giving out punishment spankings, therapy spankings, and fetish spankings–in that order. (The last is only in a very specific context: it HAS to be part of a larger scene, or there’s chastity involved).

Assume the Position

Whether it’s over the knee, bent over a desk, couch, or spanking bench, those three little words are enough to give any spanking enthusiast a thrill. I particularly enjoy inflicting corporal punishment or long, thorough therapy spankings. Spanking fetish isn’t exactly my thing, but I know the reason why. I’m a sadist. If my spank slut subbie is enjoying himself/herself TOO much; it impairs my own enjoyment.

Too Much of a Good Thing

After a certain point in spanking; the welts run together, the endorphins rise, and every following swat just adds to a general rather intense warmth/burn, rather than true discomfort/pain. That’s why I like to layer sensations with clamps, chastity, bondage, CBT, strap-on, verbal humiliation, flogging, ect… I don’t want my subbie to get too comfortable, or plateau. I’ll edge my pet again and again; letting endorphins rise higher, letting them ride the point between pleasure and pain, until I finally decide whether or not to let them tumble over it.


 

Ms. Lilly’s Kinky New Years Eve 2014

Mistress LillyI believe in starting the New Year year off with a bang

…Which is why my fiance is currently tied up to the wrought iron headboard of my bed. I decided to give the poor guy a break from my attentions for a bit so he could recover—but I’ll be teasing him off and on all night. That is one part of my evening’s entertainment. The rest is up to you.

What are some of your favorite ways to ring in the New Year?

Don’t be shy—they can be things you’ve done, or wish you had—things you’re planning, or things you wish would be done to you. I’ve found few things liven up a session more than an X-rated trip down memory lane, or the anticipation of things yet to cum. I want to know alllllll  your  kinky New Years Resolutions, as well as what thoughts really rev your engine and give you a hot and horny hard-on. Every detail–no matter how scandalous or wicked. After all, it’s only fair that I get a peak at those wild fantasies or memoirs considering I occasionally share some of mine.

Keep me company

Tonight I’m feeling very, very wicked—and mercy is a trait I’ve never claimed to possess. You’re my fiance’s only hope of salvation from my naughty, kinky clutches…because I’ll be teasing him mercilessly every moment I’m not in session. This is the FIRST New Years Eve we’ve ever been able to spend together (he’s usually on the rigs), and I’ll be the first to admit I might be going a bit overboard with how–umm…enthusiastic….I’ve been with my attentions so far.


 

Ms. Lilly’s Naughty Holidays Decor

Nothing says a certain holiday quite like an evergreen decked out in full Liberace bling.

Personally, I adore any opportunity to accessorize. Even TREES get to be decked out to the nines this time of year, and boring neighborhood bylaws unwind to allow  people to transform bland streets into themed suburban answers to the Las Vegas Strip. But for certain functions, hauling the old blue spruce or cypress off the tree lot and taking it home doesn’t pack quite the same punch as something a little more…daring. A little more avant-garde. Something that combines the glitz and glam of the holiday season with performance art, and a heaping helping of devious, daring, BDSM fun.

Nothing says kink quite like a bit of bondage ;)

This year at a Holiday fetish party, I got to indulge in one of my favorite little fetishes: rope play. Whether  you call it Shibari, Kinbaku, Bondage, this kink by any other name is just as sweet. I enjoy playing with knotty boys and girls, and while I love traditional Shibari, every now and then I mix it up with a more contemporary approach. In this particular case—I was in charge of the centerpiece for the event. But instead of using a festive evergreen to announce the holiday theme,  I used a bondage bitch.

Kay Marie's Kinky Wonderland

There’s no challenge in blinging out a tree; it will always stay right where you put it—-but a living canvas courtesy of a bondage submissive?? Now there’s a true test of devotion. The rope harness is the easy part—that simply feels like a nice, full-body hug when done properly. It’s when the ornaments begin to be attached that subbies begin to squirm. Every new decoration adds a new sweet sting to their agony, until by the time I’m through, even the most experienced bondage bitch or pain slut has a new appreciation for their limits, and my particular brand of good-natured sadistic artistry.

A rope harness; many, many, pairs of ornament bedecked nipple clamps; and several LED infused ziplines later—and I’d created a kinky festive ‘tree’ that no one would EVER forget!


 

Ms. Lilly’s Holiday Stocking Tease

…Or more accurately, Ms. Marilyn’s Stocking Tease.

Ah, the holidays….that magical time of year when I get quite a few kicks (sometimes literally) out of making sure that if there’s a Naughty List–my subs and I are DEFINITELY on it. This year is no exception—and in fact, I’m celebrating this year’s wickedly wonderful December with another femdom fashionista. Some of you know that I’m visiting one of LDW’s fabulous Ladies right now, and I feel it’s only fair to clue you in to a little of what we’ve been up to since I made my way to Ms. Marilyn’s corner of the world.

We’ve been teasing and tormenting subbies under the mistletoe.

–and with our toes. Ms. Marilyn and I both enjoy body worship, stockings, glorious heels, and the fetishists who adore them. Last night, we attended a fantastic fetish party, and had some real time play with endearingly eager and enthusiastic foot slaves and shoe sluts. She rocked a pair of scandalous slingback stiletto peep toe pumps; paired with fully fashioned stockings complete with red back seams, a black velvet mini dress, and a saucy red velvet and marabou trimmed Santa cap–while I stepped out in a body hugging printed wrap high low dress, and a killer pair of fuck me fuchsia platform peep-toe pumps, with a PVC corset detail going up the back of the heels.

There’s something divine about watching a man crawl

And crawl they did—kneeling, begging, groveling, whimpering—-desperate to feel the graze of my sharp stilleto sliding up their inseam, or the silken glide of Ms. Marilyn’s french heeled stockings. Even more wanted to kiss my pretty pedicured toes—or trace their tongues up Ms. Marilyn’s scandalous red seams.

As always, it’s Lady’s Choice

If you want to have a taste of what we did to those darling fetishists, or enjoy an entirely new fantasy, feel free to send Ms. Marilyn and I an email to schedule an appointment. Ms. Marilyn’s promised to show me a time I’ll NEVER forget—and after last night’s party, I know she’s serious! I’ll be visiting her through December 11th, so make sure to contact us in advance in if you’d like to talk between now and then—we’ll guarantee your place on the Naughty List, and make sure you have the time of your life in the process ;)

Kay Marie's Kinky Wonderland


 

Ms. Lilly’s Teasing Winter Tune: Let it Show!

Cocktease Mistress LillyI love Holiday Music…Especially when I add in a little kink.

Every winter, I have a tradition of taking a classic tune and doing something naughty to it. This year, I decided to share my love of creating satirical spoofs of winter themed songs with my LDW friends, Mistresses, and subs. For those of you who prefer to keep your holiday memories as pristine and pure as the virgin snow or a Norman Rockwell painting…

  1. How did you even stumble across my blog??? (no seriously: HOW?)
  2. Keep moving–and enjoy some of my other posts ;) I adore leading subbies down into temptation; so if sweet and unsullied is your thing, move along before I permanently warp and forever destroy those lily-white memories.  Everyone else….

Prepare for a raunchy reboot :)

Let it Show! (To the tune of Let it Snow!)

Oh the weather outside is dreary,
And my subbies all are leering
At my stockings and garter bows
Let It Show! Let It Show! Let It Show!

I don’t show signs of stopping
the tease that’s got them hopping,
The submissives are bowing low
Let It Show! Let It Show! Let It Show!

When I finally bid them good night
How they’ll hate going back to the norm!
They’ll be dreaming about me tonight,
and suffer blue balls come the morn

The strokerboys all are crying,
Yes, my pets, I’m still denying,
But as long as you love me so
Let It Show! Let It Show! Let It Show!

Did you enjoy my naughty ditty? Have you done some yourself? Feel free to call or comment and let me know!

 


 

Ms. Lilly’s Mistress Cruise & Travel Plans! Oct-Nov 2014

I love to travel

–And travel during Autumn or Winter is no exception. In fact, they’re two of my favorite times of the year to step outside my neck of the woods and see a little more of the world. So, with that in mind, I’d like to drop by and give . . . → Read More: Ms. Lilly’s Mistress Cruise & Travel Plans! Oct-Nov 2014


 

Ms. Lilly’s Cocktober Fest Game: Kinky Kissing Booth!

Cock twitching, aching, and throbbing between your thighs, you stagger towards me.

Still blushing, lips glazed with cum and eyes glazed with lust from the encounter with Ms. Rita’s Bull, you wonder just how much more of this relentless cockteasing Cocktoberfest carnival you can take. As you make your hobbling, blue-balled progress . . . → Read More: Ms. Lilly’s Cocktober Fest Game: Kinky Kissing Booth!


 

Meet The Mistresses – Mistress Delia

The Cockteasing Bitch!

I like to think of myself as a cockteasing Princess, but Ms. Delia is the Cockteasing Bitch of LDW!  Doing calls with her is so much fun, since we both love to hear our pets beg.  The teasing, the edging, the denial is never enough for the two of . . . → Read More: Meet The Mistresses – Mistress Delia


 

Mistress Lilly: What Kind of Femdom I am, Part 3

Did You Check Out Part 1 and 2?

Strap-On Mistress

Do you need a big, black cock deep in your slutty ass?  Are you a butt slut?  There’s something so submissive about a slave giving up his ass to me.  It’s the taboo, I think.  Men aren’t supposed to be . . . → Read More: Mistress Lilly: What Kind of Femdom I am, Part 3


 

Mistress Lilly: What Kind Of Femdom I am, Part 2

Make sure you read Part 1…

The Masturbatrix

“Ms. Lilly, you already talked about cockteasing.” Yes, slut, I did. Did you think I would repeat myself? A Masturbatrix can be a cocktease, but when I’m in Masturbatrix Mode, I focus more on the guided masturbation part. Telling you how to stroke, . . . → Read More: Mistress Lilly: What Kind Of Femdom I am, Part 2