Give It All To Me

Total Power Exchange – or TPE – is the ultimate expression of the BDSM lifestyle.  It means that you are giving up everything to your dominant.  I’m not talking about just cock control.  In TPE, you are not only giving up control of your cock, but of your entire body and soul.  You will let me break you down and build you back up again in my own image.  The image of a total slave to his Mistress.

You Will Have Limits

For many wannabe slaves, they think TPE means that they can’t have any limits, that they have to accept whatever their Dominant wants to do to them.  The point of TPE isn’t to become a doormat.  If you’re going to engage in a TPE relationship, you should make sure that you and your Dominant share the same kind of interests – and limits.  Your Dominant will push those limits, and you may be asked to do things that you may not necessarily like, but those activities shouldn’t be anything that are illegal, or are absolutely, non-negotiably against your moral code.

Things I Don’t Like?

Yes, slave, you will have to engage in activities that are not in your top 10, but which your Dominant may enjoy.  Maybe you don’t enjoy sucking cock, but she really loves watching two men together.  Perhaps you don’t like the taste of cum, but one of her rules is that slaves always clean up after themselves.  At some point, discipline and punishment will be called for and the whole point of punishment is it should be something you want to avoid.  Of course, the opposite of that is reward.  When you truly commit yourself to a loving Domme and give her everything, that can be its own reward…but I’m sure she’ll have other, more traditional ones in mind as well!