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Mistress Lilly

Bend over, sweetie….

How do you like your ass warmed up?

Over easy? Over the knee? Paddling that bottom until you scream? Ms. Delia has an excellent blog exploring the unique qualities and characteristics of different types of spankings, and there’s a really cool conversation going in the comment section. If you haven’t read it yet, do it now. As for me, I love giving out punishment spankings, therapy spankings, and fetish spankings, in that order. (The last is only in a very specific context: it HAS to be part of a larger scene, or there’s chastity involved).

Assume the Position

Whether it’s over the knee, bent over a desk, couch, or spanking bench, those three little words are enough to give any spanking enthusiast a thrill. I particularly enjoy inflicting corporal punishment or long, thorough therapy spankings. Spanking fetish isn’t exactly my thing, but I know the reason why. I’m a sadist. If my spank slut subbie is enjoying himself/herself TOO much, it impairs my own enjoyment.

Too Much of a Good Thing

After a certain point in spanking, the welts run together, the endorphins rise, and every following swat just adds to a general, rather intense warmth/burn, rather than true discomfort/pain. That’s why I like to layer sensations with clamps, chastity, bondage, CBT, strap-on, verbal humiliation, flogging, etc.Β  I don’t want my subbie to get too comfortable or plateau. I’ll edge my pet again and again, letting endorphins rise higher, letting them ride the point between pleasure and pain, until I finally decide whether or not to let them tumble over it.