The incredibly sexy Ms. Daphne
Mistresses of LDW don’t just play with our subbies, sometimes we play with each other.
On April 1st, Ms Daphne and I attended a wonderful play party together and gave April Fools a whole new reason why it’s my favorite holiday! No tricks, no pranks, and yet this April Fools was unquestionably my best ever, because I got to turn Ms Daphne into a fantastic shibari siren.
The soft sounds of her breathing and the sweet moans of pleasure and anticipation as I wound ropes around her breasts, her torso, her arms, and her waist were music to my ears. Seeing the way that those lovely eyes glazed over into sheer bliss as she descended into subspace was fantastic. I could see the exact moment that she surrendered completely; her body going entirely limp, totally drifting in subspace, held up only by the ropes securing her to one of the dungeon’s elaborate frames.
It may come as a surprise, but subspace isn’t the only altered mental state that is experienced during a scene.
Tops experience a distinctive change in perception too. ‘Domspace’ is characterized by hyper awareness, focus, and vigilance to the performance of the task; while subspace is largely about letting go, almost entering a state of zen where your body becomes a conduit for all the sensations and stimuli that pass through it.
During my scene with Ms Daphne, the rest of the world seemed to fade away. There was nothing but the two of us; the rest of the dungeon, the other scenes, the random fall of floggers, and the yelps and whimpers from other subs, faded into nothing. My eyes were full of the gorgeous woman being bound in my seductive Shibari web. My ears were full of the sound of her breathing and her soft moans. And my mind was completely consumed with caring for her as she dangled helplessly, blissfully, and sweetly within the bonds I had created.
She is an amazing play partner, and I would be delighted to scene with her again any time.
Ms Daphne told me about your fabulous night together at the BDSM club. It was obvious that she loved the entire experience. She was very impressed with your sensual domination skills, as well as your bondage techniques. I am so glad that you wrote about some of the details. That is what I have been waiting to hear. *wink* How sexy that two gorgeous Mistresses spent time together in a dungeon. I am curious about something…will Ms Daphne be dominating you next time?
Hi Miss Violet! Yes, it *was* incredibly sexy to be able to play with her, and I adored every moment of it. However, the next time we play Ms Daphne will not be dominating me. The prospect of being dominated (by anyone) is incredibly unappealing to me.
I have absolute confidence & respect for Ms Daphne’s abilities as a Domme, and I have a blast doing two Mistress calls with her 🙂 I will enthusiastically Dom WITH her any time she likes, but I will not allow myself to be Dommed BY anybody. I don’t switch & I don’t sub; they’re both hard limits for me. Thankfully, Ms Daphne understands that, and was willing to play with me regardless. As a result, I got to see a fascinating side of a woman I already have tremendous respect for, & I will always treasure the gift of her willingness to bottom during our scene.
Ms Lilly, I read about this scene in Ms Daphne’s blog, and was impressed beyond belief. Your post adds even more details to an already vivid mental image. As I commented in Ms Daphne’s blog, I was barely able to come up with words to use in my comment, and I’m still envious of Ms Daphne’s part in the scene of being the recipient of your intricate web of ropes! Simply beautiful!
Ms. Lilly, this sounds like such a delightful way to spend time with another mistress. It sounds like Ms Daphne trusted you so deeply as she let herself surrender to you. I know what you mean by ‘Domspace’. The world seems to disappear in a haze,while you focus all attention on directing your sub.