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Nothing says a certain holiday quite like an evergreen decked out in full Liberace bling.

Personally, I adore any opportunity to accessorize. Even TREES get to be decked out to the nines this time of year, and boring neighborhood bylaws unwind to allow  people to transform bland streets into themed suburban answers to the Las Vegas Strip. But for certain functions, hauling the old blue spruce or cypress off the tree lot and taking it home doesn’t pack quite the same punch as something a little more…daring. A little more avant-garde. Something that combines the glitz and glam of the holiday season with performance art, and a heaping helping of devious, daring, BDSM fun.

Nothing says kink quite like a bit of bondage 😉

This year at a Holiday fetish party, I got to indulge in one of my favorite little fetishes: rope play. Whether  you call it Shibari, Kinbaku, Bondage, this kink by any other name is just as sweet. I enjoy playing with knotty boys and girls, and while I love traditional Shibari, every now and then I mix it up with a more contemporary approach. In this particular case—I was in charge of the centerpiece for the event. But instead of using a festive evergreen to announce the holiday theme,  I used a bondage bitch.

Kay Marie's Kinky Wonderland

There’s no challenge in blinging out a tree; it will always stay right where you put it—-but a living canvas courtesy of a bondage submissive?? Now there’s a true test of devotion. The rope harness is the easy part—that simply feels like a nice, full-body hug when done properly. It’s when the ornaments begin to be attached that subbies begin to squirm. Every new decoration adds a new sweet sting to their agony, until by the time I’m through, even the most experienced bondage bitch or pain slut has a new appreciation for their limits, and my particular brand of good-natured sadistic artistry.

A rope harness; many, many, pairs of ornament bedecked nipple clamps; and several LED infused ziplines later—and I’d created a kinky festive ‘tree’ that no one would EVER forget!