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Rainy Day Whack-a-Pole

CBT for When Summer Sun is in Short Supply Summer is that glorious time of the year that is made for beaches, barbecues, fun in the sun, sand and surf–but what happens on those days when the sun’s not shining and the rain is pouring down? If you’re...

Sunshine CBT

CBT Arts and Crafts Summer is the perfect time to experience a form of seasonal CBT that is absolutely diabolical. If you chose to attempt it, you will need a moderate to high level of pain tolerance, and a willingness to suffer for a week or more. You will also need...

Are Safewords Absolute? Even For a Sadist?

Listening to Safewords is NOT optional. It’s mandatory. Some background— a submissive was looking for advice. I felt this issue is important enough to warrant signal boosting for anyone who might be in a similar situation, so I’m sharing my response...

The Danger of Having “No Limits” Part 2

“No limits” is a dangerous phrase for anyone to use. (Catch up on Part 1 here) If you come across a Dominant who says they have no limits; or worse, they’re looking for a sub with no limits– RUN the other way. This is frequently language that...